Thank you for everything. This may feel like sophomore year all over again but I know I will make it through, again. I’m relieved to know you will be okay now, that’s all that matters. Stop playing this time around, okay? I can finally move on.
Everything feels surreal now, the past, like a very distant memory you’re not sure of, happened. From feeling to apathy, the memories, vague. Like you don’t know if they really happened, if the people involved were really there. Everything just feels like a dream now, with you waking up and not remembering half of it, though you have a tiny bit of feeling of knowing what happened but are just unsure of it. Despite all that, I still think about your well-being so please, do it right this time. I want to see you leave with a framed, signed and sealed piece of paper, not just a signed piece of paper.
3. How will you know if he or she is the right one before getting married?
My standard advice for years has been this:
Find three things you absolutely can’t stand about a person and if you can love them despite those things, then you probably have the right one.
Mom said, “Find someone you want to change the least”.
11. I’m saying be choosy. Pick the person who will (potentially) fight the least with you and at the same time enjoy spending the most time breathing the same air.
I say, “Pick the person who will argue with you ALL the time and at the same time, still love you no matter how the argument ends, in the end.”
23. There is no such thing as an ‘uncomfortable silence’ when you really love someone.
But the best one yet?
13. You have to give them time. They need to see what life really is like without you. Nothing is worse on the break-upper than knowing the break-upee let them go without a fight. If they love you, they’ll be back. If they don’t come back, don’t worry about it for too long. God will put the right person in your path, just be ready when they arrive. Trust me.
Lesson?
Decide on what you really want.
when pigs & penguins fly.. 